Dating Tips

40 Dating Acronyms Revealed

Online dating can be great

Online dating is a great way to meet new people, but when you’re browsing online dating profiles or communicating with new people, you’ll no doubt come across acronyms used. These are a set of letters used instead of words, which help shorten phrases.

There are a now a massive amount of weird and wonderful acronyms used online, especially in the dating world. If you’re new to online dating, or not familiar with acronyms, then it can be really confusing knowing what they mean.

To help avoid any confusion, and ensure you’re clear about what people mean from the start, here’s a useful reference list to help you grasp the meaning of 40 commonly used dating acronyms.

1. AKA – Also Known As
2. BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
3. Bi – Bisexual
4. D – Divorced
5. D&D Free (D/D Free) – Drug and Disease Free
6. DTE – Down to Earth
7. F2F – Face to Face
8. FYI – For Your Information
9. GBM – Gay Black Male
10. GWM – Gay White Male
11. GLBT – Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered
12. GSOH – Good Sense of Humour
13. HNG – Horny Net Geek
14. HWP – Height/Weight Proportionate
15. IR – Interracial
16. IRL – In Real Life
17. ISO – In Search Of
18. LD – Light Drinker
19. LDR – Long Distance Relationship
20. LS – Light Smoker
21. MBA – Married But Available
22. MM – Marriage Minded
23. MSM – Man Seeking Man
24. MSW – Man Seeking Woman
25. NBM – Never Been Married
26. ND – Non-Drinker
27. N/Drugs – No Drugs
28. PDA – Public Display of Affection
29. RL – Real Life
30. SBF – Single Black Female
31. SBM – Single Black Male
32. SD – Social Drinker
33. SI – Similar Interests
34. SO – Significant Other
35. SOH – Sense Of Humour
36. STR – Straight
37. SWF – Single White Female
38. SWM – Single White Male
39. TLC – Tender Loving Care
40. WAA – Will Answer All

Don’t forget that if you’re not sure what someone you’re sending messages to means, then always ask for clarification. You don’t want to find yourself in a sticky situation further down the line when they think you know what they’re looking for, and you’ve actually got no clue!

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5 important online dating safety issues

Be safe when meeting your online date

1. Guard your true identity until you’re comfortable to share full details.

When you’re contacting people online, through online dating sites, it’s highly advisable not to give out personal information – or at least not until you feel comfortable in doing so. This means your name, phone numbers, email address, website, blog details, your address or any other information that could be used to identify you.

2. Don’t use your real name as your username.

Most dating sites require you to choose a username. For safety, do not use your real name, as you never know who could be browsing the site. It also doesn’t always take a genius to be able to track you down. A lot of usernames may be taken, so you may need to be creative when coming up with ideas.

Do be careful if choosing a sexy username though. A sexy username may succeed in getting you noticed, but not necessarily by the ‘right’ kind of people!

3. Think twice before posting a picture of yourself on free dating websites.

Dating profiles with photos inevitably have a better chance of gaining clicks and attraction, but think twice before you post a picture on a free dating website. If it’s on a secure area of a paid-for dating site, then it’s a bit more secure and can only be seen by members. But if it’s on a free dating site, anybody could see it. So think about whether you feel happy about the potential of anyone finding your dating profile and picture.

4. Use an anonymous email address.

When you’re trying out online dating services, it’s a good idea to set up an anonymous email address to use. Not only is it handy to keep all your dating emails together in one place, but it also helps protect your identity. If and when you do decide to move from communicating via an online dating site to direct emails with interesting people, it means that you still get to retain some privacy.

5. Trust your gut instincts.

Do try and trust your gut instincts and, if you feel uncomfortable about someone who’s been emailing you, then act on it. Online dating can be great, but there sadly are some nutters out there and you need to carefully sift through your emails and suss out the true gems from the crazy bods. If you feel unsure about someone, then it could be for a very good reason!

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5 foods to avoid eating on your date

So, you’ve got a date lined up and it involves going out for a meal. Meals are a great way of getting to know someone, but if you’re keen to make a great impression, it may be best to avoid certain foods. Here’s why!

1. Spaghetti

Spaghetti

It’s a lovely Italian favourite and much-enjoyed pasta dish, but unless you’re totally au fait with twisting and twirling spaghetti around your fork in the true Italian way, it’s best avoided. Eaten gracefully, spaghetti is fine, but if you’re less adept at dealing with it, you could find yourself in nightmare date alley.

Imagine the scene: you’re eating spaghetti, chatting up your date and trying to look really cool. As you attempt to manoeuvre your next mouthful of spaghetti onto your fork, it all goes out of control. The spaghetti slips, the sauce flicks and your calm composure is lost. Flicking sauce on yourself is bad enough, but it gets worse if it goes anywhere near your date. No, spaghetti is definitely one of the top five foods to avoid if you’re on a date.

2. Garlic

Garlic

Unless your date is also happily consuming garlic-based dishes, or foods such as garlic mushrooms or garlic bread, then it’s another best avoided date food. You don’t want to end up reeking of garlic for the rest of the evening and, if you’re hoping for a kiss (or two!), then your chances could be seriously dashed by the garlic lingering on your breath.

3. Hot and spicy curry

Spicy curry

In a similar vein to garlic, it’s also a good idea to give a wide berth to a hot and spicy curry, or at least on your first date. The smell of curry is well known to stay with you and, if you want to make a memorable good first impression and not one that’s based on the smell of what you ate, it’s best to not choose a spicy curry.

4. Seafood that involves shell removal

Seafood platter

Even if you love seafood and can’t get enough of it, it may be best to avoid eating seafood that involves shell removals on your date. That includes plates of food that come with the seafood still in the shells, like paella or other dishes. Although you may enjoy picking apart the crab shells or pulling out the lobster meat, doing that at the table with a potential new date isn’t the most alluring thing.

Not only is it cumbersome and messy, but you’ll also end up with an extra plate on the table – full of empty seafood shells – and as many tables for two aren’t oozing with space, this could take up valuable hand-holding room. So definitely think twice before you order and avoid the seafood on your date.

5. Greasy or messy foods

Greasy and messy foods - avoid!

As much as you may be yearning for a plate of greasy chips, it’s not the best choice for a date. As a rule, it’s best to avoid any obviously greasy foods, as the grease could easily get transferred to your hands. If you’re touching your date, they’ll not end up too impressed by the feel of your greasy hands.

Likewise, any obviously messy foods, like a burger that may squish out of the bun, spare ribs that involve being picked up to eat or corn on the cob that could get stuck in your teeth, are all best to avoid eating on your date. After all, you want to be remembered as someone who was fun to be with – not someone who made a mess or spent the remainder of the time picking food out of their teeth!

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